I was planning on writing about something else but a scene I caught this morning of Kayla made me write this instead. This is what I saw:
As I walked down the stairs, I saw Kayla on the couch looking at our photo books, flipping through the pages, smiling and laughing at her photos when she was about 7 yrs old (7 years ago!). I think what prompted her to look at our photo books again was my telling her and her Ate Arielle two days ago that we will be going back to the resort we went to last 2008. That got them super duper excited (Actually, any beach trip excites them! We are one beach family 🙂 ) and it looks like Kayla is showing her eagerness more than her Ate. Maybe because Arielle still has to go through her mock interview and portfolio presentation to SCAD-HK this Saturday, Nov. 28. She’s probably still feeling the pressure.
Anyway, I couldn’t help but sit down beside Kayla for a good 5 minutes and “be in the moment” with her. That moment was something important to her and it was a very brief but special bonding opportunity with her. Only a few words were said but I was able to capture the essence: She fondly recalled our family vacations, especially to the beach. She couldn’t believe how “awkward” she looked when she was 7 years old and how tall she is now. And she is SOOO EXCITED to go back to the beach in March 2016, to the same resort we were at 7 years ago, and hopefully do the same fun activities again that we did back then.
Then, I realized that family vacations was something we’ve been doing since 2007. We only missed one year and that was in 2010. And now I see the value in it and that family tradition matters. For us, it was traveling especially during summer and the beach is a favorite destination. We are normally away just for 4 days but those days are uninterrupted bonding time with one another and a time to get away from our normal routines, explore new places, do outdoor activities together, unplug from technology, and plug in nature.
We have no other family tradition that we hold close to our hearts as much as this one, and I’m happy to be able to do and keep this! It may just be one tradition but it is truly something that keeps our bond as a family stronger.
Now that Christmas is just around the corner and it is usually a time for traditions, what family traditions do you have? Whether it’s a one-on-one date with each of your child and your husband, birthday celebrations, visit to the province, yearly reunion with Lolo, Lola and cousins, I think it is important to keep one because family tradition matters.