I just want to take time to pause and say that our year 2015 to 2016 has been great! I am really so glad that we took that leap of faith (again! next to homeschooling) to take a gap year after Arielle graduated from high school. I just feel a whole lot more prepared WITH and FOR her, as a mom and a parent-teacher. I honestly can’t imagine how my life would have been like if we decided to go straight to college. I am sure my days would have been all panic, rush, and stress, given not ample time (well, that’s how I feel) to prepare well enough for college testing, application and my daughter’s life to be.
Although I know that going on a gap year does not guarantee a total preparation for Arielle’s life ahead, it has given us the time to prepare for all the things we could. Aside from building an art portfolio, a 500-word essay, designing her own resume and business card, Arielle has learned how to cook, attend to a few home repairs, manage her time, is learning how to budget her money, drive a stick shift car, and choose meat cuts in the grocery. She knows the basics of laundry with the use of a washing machine, but I think I will let her learn that chore herself in Hong Kong. With ironing, I honestly don’t think she’ll have the time to iron all her clothes and so, one of the two things in my To Buy list in Hong Kong is a good steamer and a blender so she can still have her veggies and fruits smoothies, even if on-the-go.
Right now, Arielle is finalizing her artworks for her portfolio, after receiving tips from a SCAD professor when SCAD-HK had their Information Session here in Manila last November 2015. Having that practice round of interview and portfolio presentation was really helpful, giving us a feel of how it is going to be like for the real thing this March 2016. That gave Arielle the time to improve on her artworks before she would finally submit/upload them to SCAD’s so-called SlideRoom before March. She is not as stressed as before when she was doing everything from scratch and my prayer these days as she completes her SCAD scholarship requirements is for her to see who she really is, her strengths and gifts, who ultimately gave those gifts to her, and how she should use those. That this whole process be a revelation to her by God of who she ultimately is, her purpose and unique design.
Meanwhile, Kayla is also doing well with her golf. So far, she’s been placing in tournaments she has joined. Yesterday, she brought home this:
We are sooo proud of her! The very first thing I did when Kayla told me on the phone that she has a trophy was immediately thank the Lord for an answered prayer. I really am praying that 2016 would be HER year and that God will bless her with good opportunities in golf and in her studies. I know that she’s been thinking of what it is really that she wants to take up in college, what she wants to do in her life and that it hasn’t been very clear to her. I’m praying that golf would somehow give her some answers or clues.
After sharing the good news with Kayla’s golf coach, he congratulated and then reminded me to work on her Curriculum Vitae or Biodata on her golf achievements. That brought me back to my role as a homeschool parent-teacher to do the important task of record-keeping. So, as early as now, I am making sure that I will record Kayla’s golf achievements and other activities worth including in her resume. That way, I have a file of her various homeschooling activities, especially golf, as they happen and I won’t rack my brain in trying to recall what she did and when, when it’s time to submit those college applications.
So this post is actually a tip and a friendly reminder to homeschool parents and kids out there. Start recording and/or keeping a file of your child’s activities and achievements. Have a notebook for it, if that’s what’s going to work for you for now. Or start creating a Word or Excel file. That’s what I just did. I had to backtrack and think of Kayla’s golf trainings, golf coaches, and when she had them. I went as far back as Grade 6 which was 4 years ago and I was already having a quite difficult time remembering dates! The other activities she joined would be easier since most, if not all, of them are the same activities Arielle had and they are already on record. Plus, aside from keeping a file of their actual certificates from workshops and camps, I also keep a folder in my email per schoolyear and in there goes their academic and extra-curricular records, notes, activities, including flight details on out-of-town camps, for instance.
I wish I had done this record-keeping even before Arielle took her gap year. Believe me, starting it early is going to make things easier for your college-bound students. So, for the record, one way to organize your homeschool life is to record your child’s achievements, activities, and involvements.